You’re coming to Hawaiʻi for my commissioning. Naturally, I turned that into a whole planning project. I did most of the annoying research so you can show up, celebrate with me, and have your own trip.
January 28, 2027 · USS Missouri Your invitation has the ceremony schedule and access details.
MY HOME. YOUR ADVENTURE. OUR MEMORIES.Okay, you’re really coming.
Maybe I haven’t seen you in years. Maybe you’ve been saying “I need to visit Hawaiʻi” for years. Well, here’s your excuse. This commissioning is a big deal to me, and having you here is the part I’m most excited about.
I’ll do my best to spend quality time with you. With people coming from so many parts of my life, equal time probably isn’t happening. Please don’t sit in your hotel waiting for me to become available. It’s your vacation too. Go enjoy it.
01 / MY OʻAHU
The Places I’d Send People I Actually Like
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Some of these places are part of my regular life. Others are here because you should see them on your first trip. I’ll tell you which is which when it matters.
Prices, hours, menus and access rules were checked in September 2026 where available and can change before January. Use each official link to confirm your date. Food opinions and portions are my own experiences.
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THU, JAN 28 · 8 PM · TENTATIVE
An evening at ʻAuana
I loved this show and want to go again. After the ceremony, you’ll have time to change and get dinner before the tentative 8 pm outing. Group pricing starts at 10 tickets; I’ll confirm price and seats once we know who’s interested.
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DATES FLEXIBLE · LET’S COORDINATE
Kualoa Ranch adventure
Tell me which days work for you. This is one I’d actually like to do with you. My possible discount requires me to be there and has a guest limit, so talk to me before buying tickets.
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I may be able to help with discounted tickets for some activities. Text me what you want to do, when, and how many people are going. Some offers require me to attend, and availability and eligibility vary.
This part of the trip I can absolutely help with. Start with the neighborhood, or open “Pick Your Vibe” if you just know you want to dance. You don’t have to share my stamina. You do need a ride home.
Use the venue links for current menus, events, and hours; Harbor Pub links to its listing. These aren’t rankings. A great jazz lounge and a great 3 a.m. dance floor are answering very different questions.
Found something good? Need somebody for a beach day, dinner, hike, random adventure, or maybe a partner in crime for a random side quest or late-night rendezvous? Put it here.
Some of the people coming have never met each other, and honestly, I’d love for that to change before I’m standing there trying to introduce everyone at once.
If there’s something you want to do that I didn’t plan, post it. Maybe I’m down. Maybe I’m not. Maybe somebody else is. Use this to find your people and make a plan.
Anyone with the website link can read and post here. Keep personal contact info out of the messages and text me privately if you need to.
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Come celebrate with me. Then go have a trip you’ll still be talking about. I want the stories, obviously.